Key Takeaways

Snapchat is the most commonly known disappearing-message app, but other apps including Instagram have added similar features

Instagram's "Vanish Mode" erases conversations once they're over

In any app, the illusion that everything said or shared will truly vanish is dangerous—it might lead kids to talk or behave impulsively, and texts or images can be screenshot by the other party and used to embarrass or harass your student later

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Dialogue Starters (questions for parents to ask kids)

How many apps do you know of that have disappearing message features? 

What's the appeal of using this feature? 

What problems can you imagine might occur if you or a friend said something on an impulse, thinking it won't matter because it goes away? 

Additional resources for parents

Family Media Agreement

Negative Effects of Snapchat for Teens

Negative Effects of Social Media & Screen Time: What Parents, Educators, & Students Need to Know

Conclusion

Disappearing messages may seem like a safe way for teens to communicate, but they can quickly lead to unintended risks that impact their safety, privacy, and well-being. As parents, understanding these potential dangers and talking openly with your teen can make all the difference. By staying informed about how these apps work and encouraging your child to consider the long-term effects of their online interactions, you can help them make smarter, safer choices.

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